Delivering Difficult News

Providing serious medical information is challenging. These are helpful steps and phases.

  1. Use simple language.
    – “I wish I had better news, but the biopsy showed cancer.”
    – “I’m afraid you have had an early pregnancy loss.”
  2. Listen, use silence, and acknowledge emotion.
    – “This is hard.”
    – “I know this is not what you were hoping for.”
    – “What is going through your mind?”
  3. Equip the patient for the next step(s).
    – “I would like you to see Dr.________________.”
    – “The next step is an MRI.”
    – “Would you like me to discuss this with your family?”
    – It’s time to focus our care on your comfort.”
  4. Use a warm hand off and follow up phone calls/emails to avoid a sense of abandonment. 

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